restlessness, this mishandling of responsibility and/or misseeking of pleasure. It’s background noise. But as you get to really know them, if you know to look, you’ll often find these serious, curiously common bipolar and unipolar disorders. Those you counsel—like you?—become slaves to restless inner compulsion. But it only shows a glimpse of its face when it contributes to those other more noticeable problems by which we destroy ourselves and our relationships. Perhaps bickering and discontent fester